實用口語:如何勸導別人面對現實
古語說：“謀事在人，成事在天。”有些時候，我們就算付出再多的努力，如果時機不成熟，或者障礙難以逾越，那麼等待我們的就是挫敗。身邊有朋友遇到這樣的情況，我們要怎麼勸勸他們呢？
1. There's nothing you can do about it. 你對此無能爲力.
2. That's the way it goes. 現實就是這樣.
3. You can't fight it. 你再爭也沒有用.
4. C'est la vie. (法語)生活就是如此.
5. It was destined to happen.這是命中註定。
6. It's meant to be.命該如此。
7. Whatever will be, will be. 該怎樣，就會怎樣。
8. It's just one of those things. 這樣的事情總是難免的。
9. At least we are not the only ones facing these problems. 至少不光是我們面臨這樣的問題。
10. It's the best we can do under the circumstances. 情況就是這樣，我們已經盡力而爲了。
11. You did the best you could. 你已經盡力而爲了。
12. You get an A for effort. 你盡了最大的努力。
13. The important thing is that you tried. 重要的是你已經努力過了。
14. Winning isn't everything. 贏並不是一切。
15. It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you play the game. 關鍵不在於輸贏，而在於過程。
