星座英語:十二星座約會戀人各有"禁忌"
小編有話要說，偉大先人牛頓老爺子證實了：萬有引力。連人的情緒和月亮的陰晴也有着千絲萬縷的聯繫。那麼約會的時候怎樣才能充分展現魅力，留住對方的心呢？一起和我分享各大星座的戀愛小貼士吧~
Dating isn't always easy. Sometimes we've experienced dates that, beforehand, seemed as though they'd be a success, only to find them a complete failure later. Why does this happen? Here are some reasons why a date could go awry based on your sign, and how to prevent them from happening again.
約會不總是輕而易舉。我們時常經歷一些這樣的約會：事先看起來應該有戲，事後卻發現失敗得一塌糊塗。怎麼會這樣呢？下面有一些基於星座的原因，讓你知道爲什麼約會走上了歧途，以及如何預防這種事情再次發生。
Aries: Remember that the world doesn’t revolve around you, Aries. Aries can often think about themselves first, after all, they rule the first house of "self". Be sure to find out what your sweetie wants, too.
白羊座：白羊們要記住，世界不是圍着你轉。白羊座的人可能通常先想到自己，畢竟，你們是最“自我”的一類。但也一定要弄清楚你的情人想要什麼。
Taurus: Need to know where your partner is all the time or what they’re doing can easily put you on damage control. When you get into a new relationship or begin dating someone, love without being possessive.
金牛座：想要時刻知道你的對象在哪裏或者在做什麼，會輕易讓你時刻警惕着以防自己受傷。當你處於一段新的戀情或者開始約會某人時，用心去愛，但別想着佔有。
Gemini: You love to do the talking, but let your sweetie share some words, too. Be an active listener on your next date. Keep eye contact with them at all times, be sure to be empathetic and keep your focus on THEIR story.
雙子座：你很愛說，但也要讓你的情人 Don’t Be A Dating Disaster! 說上幾句。下次約會時一定要做一個積極的聆聽者。始終保持眼神交流，一定要投入感情，而且把注意力集中在“他們”的故事上。
Cancer: Watch your mood swings around your sweetie, Cancer, especially on dates. Be careful you don't flip a switch at that restaurant or even worse do it to your server. Sometimes it can be more embarrassing to see your date be rude to your server than to you even. Watch your emotional energy and keep it in check especially in public!
巨蟹座：巨蟹們，有情人相伴時一定要注意自己的情緒波動，尤其是約會時。一定不要在餐館鬧情緒，更不要衝服務員發火。有時候，看到自己的伴侶對服務員粗魯甚至比對自己粗魯更難堪。注意自己的情緒，並及時控制，尤其是在公衆場合！
Leo: You have a great sense of selfesteem, but don't let your confidence turn to cockiness. Too many comments that are self-serving could make you seem like you're implying you’re better than average. Keep it real, home slice! Your sweetie will prefer a more humble nature.
獅子座：你有很強的自尊心，但不要讓你的自信變成自大。太多褒揚自己的話會讓你看上去是在暗示你自己比普通人強。現實點吧，朋友！你的情人會喜歡更加謙卑的個性。
Virgo: You like everything to be perfect, but when you're on a date, try not to nit-pick over every single thing to your waiter or sweetie. A dirty spoon or a fly in your soup are good reasons to call over your server. But to fuss over every little thing will most definitely be a turn off to your date.
處女座：你希望所有事都完美無缺，不過，當你約會時，注意不要什麼事都對服務員或者你的情人進行挑剔。勺子髒或者湯裏有隻蒼蠅都是可以把服務員召喚過來的理由，但是對所有事都吹毛求疵的話，一定以及肯定會讓你的情人興趣索然。
Libra: Avoid name-dropping! Scales love expensive and beautiful things. Even people who are associated with beauty and wealth can be a conversation of delight for glamorous Libra. Just try not to name-drop those jeans or that celebrity you know in every conversation.
天秤座：別借別人來擡高自己！天秤們喜歡昂貴美麗的事物，就連那些和美麗、富足扯上關係的人都可以成爲迷人的天秤座興致勃勃談論的話題。試着不要每次談話都要提到那些牛仔褲或你認識的那個名人來擡高自己。
Scorpio: You love passion in a relationship, and that's why sometimes you can move too fast. When you first meet a guy or girl, don't rush into intimacy. Rein that sexual energy in, folks! And get to know the person.
天蠍座：你喜歡戀情裏有激情，這就是爲什麼有時候你可能進展得太快的原因。當你第一次約見某個男子或女子的時候，不要急於親熱。把性活力控制在體內，夥計們！要試着瞭解對方。
Sagittarius: Don't be flighty! You're truly a social butterfly and love to scatter your energy everywhere. Don't flake out on plans with your sweetie or a new date. This will most definitely be a turn-off because it will show you aren'treliable.
射手座：不要舉止輕浮！你的確是個社交花蝴蝶，喜歡到處揮灑自己的活力。在計劃你和情人或新的約會對象的安排時，不要玩得太過了。這百分百會讓他們興趣索然，因爲這種舉動表明你不可靠。
Capricorn: You're very responsible, Capricorn. You want everything to be in working order all the time and that can lead to an excessive amount of over explaining and even controlling situations. We realize you're being overly efficient, but half the time most people will tune out the information they don't need, so you’re just wasting your breath. Keep it simple!
摩羯座：魔羯，你很負責。你期望所有事情都時刻正常運轉，而這會讓你進入一而再再而三地過度解釋甚至過度控制的處境。我們發現，你說話的效率太高了，但有一半時間，大多數人會忽略他們不需要的信息，所以，你只是白費脣舌而已。說話要簡短！
Aquarius: You can easily be wrapped up in causes for a higher good, because you're ruled by the planet that rules technology! When you're on date, don't open that PETA email that just popped up on your blackberry. Your sweetie will begin to think your messages are more important than them. Try to live in the moment, and leave your iphone or blackberry out of the picture for a bit.
水瓶座：你會很輕易就武裝上更好的裝備，因爲控制着你的星球也控制着科技！約會時，不要打開黑莓手機裏剛冒出來的那封超大郵件。你的情人會開始認爲你收到的信息比他/ 她更重要。試着珍惜約會的每一分鐘，不要把你的蘋果手機或黑莓手機牽扯進來。
Pisces: Your dreamy nature easily allows you to be in your own little world. Sometimes your sweetie or crush could wonder if you're even listening. When you're on a new date or out with your sweetie, try to snap into reality. And be careful of wearing your heart on your sleeve too quickly in relationships.
雙魚座：你愛幻想的本質很容易就讓你沉迷於自己的小世界。有時候，你的情人或迷戀你的人會猜想你是否在聽他們說話。當你開始一次新的約會或與情人外出時，試着快速融入現實世界。還要注意，談戀愛時，不要很快就表明自己的感情。
Vocabulary:
1. damage control: An effort to minimize or curtail damage or loss. 損害管制
2. mood swing: 情緒波動
3. flip a switch: 撥開關，文中形容情緒變化得快
4. home slice: A good friend
5. nit-pick: 挑剔，吹毛求疵
6. name-drop: To mention casually the names of illustrious or famous people in order to imply that one is on familiar terms with them, intended as a means of selfpromotion. 借名流權貴來擡高自己
7. rein： v . 駕馭，控制
8. flighty： a. 充滿幻想的，輕浮的
9. flake out: Go crazy; also, cause someone to go crazy.
10. wear your heart on your sleeve: Display one’s emotions openly.
