如何判斷"你真的戀愛了嗎"? 七種跡象來判斷
In our many interviews with people “in love” we ask them the most revealing question of the interview – “When did you know you were in love?” We have heard very consistent answers over our 26+ years of interviews with couples in love. There are seven key indicators to know when you are really in love:
對戀人們的多次採訪後，我們都問了同樣的也是最露骨的問題—“從什麼時候開始你意識到你戀愛了”？經過26年堅持不懈的採訪，我們得到了一致的答案，7種主要跡象表明你真的戀愛了。
ical: People who say they are in love report getting “goosebumps,” “a palpating heart,” “sweaty palms,” “a tingling sensation all over my body.” People in love have a positive physical reaction when they think about or see the one they love.
身體上：如果戀人們見到或者思念他們的戀人，他們的身體通常會有一些相應的反應，例如，起雞皮疙瘩，溢於言表，手掌出汗，身體感到微微的顫動。
ional: When they think about or see the person they love most lovers report “an uncontrollable smile comes over my face whenever I see her,” and “I miss him when he leaves the room.” People in love feel emotions for the person they love that they do not routinely feel for others.
情感上：當你想念你最愛的人，或者看到你最愛的時，你會情不自禁的發笑，不僅如此，你會更加關心你所愛之人。
3. Positive worry: Over the years, we continue to be amazed about the consistency with which people in love report to us that they “worry about their lover” when they are not around. Thoughts about what we have come to call “positive worry” about the one they love begin to creep into their mind.
積極擔心：通過這幾年對戀人的採訪，我們驚奇的發現，如果你的另一半不在你身邊，你會不由自主的爲他擔心，我們把對另一半的擔心成爲積極擔心。
4. I-cannot-imagine-life-without-him: This is the point in love when you begin to think about the future – your future with the one you love. When you cannot imagine your life without her, you are in love!
沒有他，我將何去何從：展望未來，戀人們通常會想到這一點—和你所愛的人廝守終身，你無法想象沒有他的日子。
5. Oneness of your relationship: You begin to realize that you truly want this other person in your life. In our book, we refer to the notion of “turning two into one.” Everything changes from you and me, to WE!
行動一致：你開始意識到你真的希望和他在一起，用書中的一句話，用書中的一句話就是 “合二爲一“。從你，變成了我們。
6. Pre-occupied love: Simply stated, you think about the one you love most of the time. You can’t get them out of your mind. You are in love with them!
鍾愛：簡單的說就是你無時無刻不在思念着你最愛的人，一旦你愛上了一個人，你就無法忘掉他。
7. Love itself and your ability to express that love: You finally have the courage to tell them you love them! You suddenly and out of nowhere are inspired to say I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU! You shout it to the stars. You are in love!
讓愛和行動詮釋愛：當你終於鼓起勇氣向她表白，你會情不自禁的喊出，我愛你，我愛你，我愛你，你就真的步入愛河了。
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n. 感覺，感知力，激動，轟動
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adj. 感情的，情緒的
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adj. 有創見的，有靈感的
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