哈佛面試官告訴你 18歲之前必須掌握的4項技能

The ability to manage money

理財能力

"I definitely think students should be financially astute before they get to college and have at least read some books on money management," Bayor says.

巴約爾表示：“我當然認爲，學生們在進入大學之前應當對財政敏感，至少已經閱讀了一些關於理財的書籍。”

She explains that, for many college students, this will be the first time many of them are controlling their finances, and the academic rigors may distract them from doing so effectively.

她解釋道，對於很多大學生而言，這將是他們首次管理自己的資產，學術上的嚴謹性可能會分散他們有效理財的能力。

To better manage their money, Bayor says students should know how to create a budget, live within their means, and not accrue credit card debt.

巴約爾說道，爲了更好地理財，學生們應該知道如何建立預算，依靠自己的方式生活，不揹負信用卡債務。

Time management

時間管理

"I also think students need to know how to balance their time, as college is about being fully self-motivated and structuring time to finish papers and classwork without having anyone looking over you.to make sure you're doing the reading or completing assignments," Bayor says. "Your success is based on you."

巴約爾表示：“我還認爲學生們需要知道如何平衡他們的時間，因爲大學無非就是完全依靠自我激勵，組織時間完成論文和功課，而無需別人監督你來確保進行閱讀和完成任務。你的成功在於你自己。”

Conflict resolution

解決衝突

Bayor says that by age 18, you should be able to resolve or negotiate conflict in a healthy way.

巴約爾表示，到18歲，你應該能夠以一種健康的方式解決或協調衝突。

"A lot of students will be living with roommates for the first time in their lives, and conflicts will absolutely come up," she says. "How you resolve them, and the relationship skills you have, will add or detract a lot from your happiness with others."

她說道：“很多學生將會是人生當中第一次和室友居住，衝突肯定是會出現的。你解決衝突的方式以及你所擁有的關係技能將會增加或減少你和他人之間的樂趣。”

The ability to stay positive

保持積極的能力

Bayor says that, most importantly, students need to know how to maintain a healthy outlook on life, since college, especially at the Ivy League level, can be stressful.

巴約爾表示，學生們最重要的是需要知道如何維持健康的生活觀，因爲大學，尤其是常春藤級別的，學業壓力會很大。