ing-bottom: 66.5%;">Most people enjoy the stage and getting applause from the audiences. Such as the successful persons, Bill Gates, Steve Jobs and so on, no matter where they go, they receive respect and praise all the time. Successful people are everywhere, who have so many listeners, but for the ordinary people, who also need someone to talk to. When we are in bad mood, the best way to relieve negative emotion is to find someone to listen to our annoyance. If we keep the annoyance in our mind, we are easy to feel depressed all the time. The job of a listener is just to hear other people's babbling, and usually he doesn't need to be given many opinions. People seek comfort from another person, because they want to relieve all bad emotion. Being a good listener helps us to win more respect. 大多數人都享受舞臺和來自觀衆的掌聲。比如成功人士：比爾蓋茨，史蒂夫•喬布斯等等，無論他們去到哪裏，都可以得到尊重和讚美。成功的人到處都有，他們有很多的聽衆，但是對於普通人來說，他們也需要有人說說話。當我們心情不好時，緩解負面情緒的最好方法是找人傾聽我們的煩惱，如果我們心中的煩惱無法排出去，就會很容易感到沮喪。一個聆聽者的工作就是聽別人說話，通常他不需要給太多的意見。人們從他人那裏尋求安慰，因爲他們想要緩解所有的不良情緒。作爲一名好的傾聽者，能夠幫助我們贏得更多的尊重。
