Ted演講：解密愛情與出軌
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微博上鬧得沸沸揚揚的“且行且珍惜”不知你關注了沒有?在愛情裏，哪裏有什麼輸贏，但或許從科學上我們可以解釋一下“出軌”這件事。在人類學家 Helen Fisher 的 TED 演講中，她闡述了自己認爲決定愛的三大腦組織：慾望、浪漫的愛情和依賴感。而出軌這件事，可以這樣解釋：
Ted演講：解密愛情與出軌
【主講人介紹】
Anthropologist Helen Fisher studies gender differences and the evolution of human emotions. She's best known as an expert on romantic love, and her beautifully penned books — including Anatomy of Love and Why We Love — lay bare the mysteries of our most treasured emotion.
人類學家 Helen Fisher 致力於研究性別差異與人類情緒的進化。她是研究愛情的專家，出版的著作有《愛的解析》和《愛的原因》，書中她爲我們揭示了情緒的奧祕。
【演講內容節選】
But these three brain systems: lust, romantic love and attachment, aren't always connected to each other.
這三個大腦組織：慾望、浪漫的愛情和依賴，並不總是彼此相關。
You can feel deep attachment to a long-term partner while you feel intense romantic love for somebody else, while you feel the sex drive for people unrelated to these other partners.
你可以對一個長期的伴侶有深深的依賴感，同時與另一個人享受浪漫的愛情，並且還能同時對一個不相關的第三人產生性慾。
In short, we're capable of loving more than one person at a time. In fact, you can lie in bed at night and swing from deep feelings of attachment for one person to deep feelings of romantic love for somebody else.
簡單來說，我們可以同時與不止一個人相愛。事實上，你晚上躺在牀上可以一會兒想想那個你對他有依賴感的人，一會兒想想那個跟你有浪漫愛情的另一個人。
It's as if there's a committee meeting going on in your head as you are trying to decide what to do. So I don't think, honestly, we're an animal that was built to be happy; we are an animal that was built to reproduce.
你的大腦就像在開代表大會似的，你在思考下一步要做什麼。所以說實話，我覺得我們是以繁殖爲目的的物種，而不是以幸福爲目的。
I think the happiness we find, we make. And I think, however, we can make good relationships with each other.
幸福，是我們發現和創造的。我認爲，我們可以與每個人建立美好的關係。
