讓他知道你在乎他的10個方式(除了我愛你)(下)
6. Show your partner that you trust him implicitly.
6.委婉表達你的信任
If you can't do this, you need to do some work.to get that part of your connection working correctly. Love can't flourish in a world of distrust.
如果你做不到這點，那你得多努力努力了。這世上沒有愛情不是建立在信任的基礎之上的。7. Give him little inexpensive gifts for no reason.
7.沒理由地送點小禮物
Giving is a process, not an event, and is something that should happen on a daily basis. Yes, you want to celebrate big events like birthdays and holidays, but the giving that comes from the heart should be something that your partner receives regularly.
送禮物不是一蹴而就，而是細水長流，滲透在日常生活的點滴裏。沒錯，你會想要慶祝一些盛大的日子，比如生日或者節日，但裝滿愛心的禮物，應該要讓你的伴侶時常感受得到。8. Speak in a soft tone so you're not mistaken for being upset.
8．語氣溫和，他纔不會誤會你心情不好
I know that sometimes if I drop something and it startles me, I can yell real loud and the whole house erupts. But now I've learned to just say "Oops!" so everyone knows I'm okay and that nothing bad happened.
我知道，我有時候掉了什麼東西或者被什麼嚇了一跳，會忍不住大喊大叫，聲音大到整棟樓都聽得到。但現在我學會簡單地用一句“天吶！”代替，這樣別人就知道這兒沒什麼大事。9. If you're not the regular cook in your home, make him something fabulous.
9.如果你不常下廚，你可以送他個愛心便當
The first time I did this, she thought I had ordered it from a restaurant (guess I'm a better cook than I thought).
我第一次爲女朋友下廚的時候，她還以爲我是點的外賣（看來我的廚藝比我想象中要好不少）。10. Spend as much of your free time together.
10.一起度過閒暇時光
If you're going to watch TV, at least sit on the same couch and hold hands or put your arms around one another. Closeness and communication are what makes a relationship work.
你們如果要看電視，至少坐在一張沙發上，牽着小手或者把胳膊搭在她肩上。親密交流一直是促進感情升溫的法寶。Caring and closeness are what make life worth living and anyone can improve upon how they treat the people they love. Remember that showing you care is much more powerful than just saying it.
關愛與親密讓一段感情更加持久。而在與愛人相處的這門功課裏，每個人都還有上升空間。
