爲什麼要娶一個情感豐富的女人大綱

Trust us, her complexity is always worth it. Captivating, passionate, opinionated and unapologetically layered, the emotionally complex woman is a mixture of emotions she's able to express deeply, sincerely and often. This doesn't mean she's high drama, loud or running low in self-control, it simply means she's a thinker, and even when quiet, those still waters run deep. While not for every man, she's downright magnetic to the thinkers and feelers who appreciate witty banter, theoretical conversations, sensitive gestures and thoughtful debates. And here are 10 sound reasons to date her:

相信我們，她的豐富總是值得的。有着迷人、熱情、獨斷、肆意的多面性，情感豐富的女人能時常深深地真心表現出一些混合的感情。這並不意味着她戲劇性、吵鬧或是控制力很低，它只說明她是個思想者，即使在安靜的時候，也仍然大智若愚。雖然不能吸引所有人，但她對欣賞詼諧、理論性的對話、敏感的手勢、深思熟慮的辯論的思想家和感受家們有着很大的吸引力。這裏有10條理由充分說明爲什麼你應該和她約會。

's not only interesting, she's interested....

10.她不僅僅是有趣，她還不僅僅感興趣於…

And in a hell of a lot more than what kind of car you drive, where you vacation and how much your salary-plus-bonus equates to. She will want to know why you choose to do what you do with your life, if it makes you happy and what other interests you have aside from it. She's happy to share information about herself, but she gets joy in hearing what others think and feel and what motivates them. This is how she connects with those around her.

不僅感興趣於你開什麼樣的車、你的薪水加獎金是多少。她會想知道你爲什麼要選擇去做什麼樣的事來度過生活，想知道那是否讓你開心、還有你除此之外有什麼別的愛好。她樂意分享她的信息，但她也喜歡聽別人講他們的想法和感受，以及什麼能激勵他們。這是她將周圍與自己聯繫起來的方式。

's no bore.

9.她不乏味

The emotionally complex woman is alive. Whether she's sipping champagne, biting into a new cuisine, in a fit of passion in the bedroom or enthusiastically sharing the joys of her day (or reacting to yours), this is a woman who's big on enjoying each and every experience mind, body and soul.

情感豐富的女人是生動的。不管是在喝香檳、嘗試新的美食、臥室激情中還是在熱情的向你分享她的一天（或者是在迴應你的一天）時，這都是一個享受每一次由身到心的體驗的女人。

's ruled by her passions:

8.她被激情所左右

Whether she's going after a goal, fighting for a cause, indulging a hobby or falling in love, she engages her desire with full attention and believes in it down to the bone. Looking for loyalty in excess? This is your gal.

不管她是在朝着目標前行、爲着一個理由奮戰、沉迷於一個愛好中還是墜入愛河，她都全心全意的專注於她的願望並從骨子裏相信這一點。想要尋找絕對忠誠的人嗎？這就是你要的女孩兒。

's sincere to a fault.

7.她嚴肅對待一個錯誤

She may have a great sense of humor, but she's quite serious about what matters most to her. Her word tops that list. When she says something, she means it and she has a very hard time understanding those who don't follow suit. In fact, she tends to have zero tolerance for those who break the word-as-thy-bond decree.

她可能幽默感很好，但在對待對她來說最重要的事時很嚴肅。她說話時明確了這些事。當她說了什麼事後，她是認真的希望人們這麼做，而且對於那些沒有照做的人感到很難理解。實際上，她對那些打破規則的人基本上是零容忍態度。

knows who she is

6.她知道自己是誰

Yes, she can overthink things (which admittedly can be a little frustrating for the both of you at times), but there's an upside to all of that analyzing, thinking and feeling. It has allowed her the chance to really understand what she likes, doesn't like, wants and wants to avoid. This means she's going to be upfront about how she feels and not waste anyone's time. She will be pretty clear whether or not you two are a match early on, and if you're not, well, she'll likely pull away because...

是的，她會考慮太多（無可否認，這有時會讓你們倆都有點沮喪），但這些分析、思考和感受有一個好處。這讓她有機會真的瞭解自己喜歡什麼、不喜歡什麼，想要什麼以及要避免什麼。這意味着她將坦率表達自己的感受而不浪費任何人的時間。她會在短時間內搞清楚你們是否般配，如果你們不合適，她可能會從中抽身離開，因爲…

's not into superficial relationships.

5.因爲她不喜歡膚淺表面的關係

While she can have fun and let loose, she prefers to do so around people she knows, trusts and takes a real interest in, the same people she knows take a real interest in her. She doesn't have the skin for one night stands (the stress of the morning after would put her into a panic) and frivolous dating just for the sake of cocktails and conversation. Yawn.

當她想放鬆去找些樂子時，她更偏向於與周圍她瞭解、信任、感興趣的人，以及同樣對她有興趣的人去做這些事。她不喜歡一夜情（事後早晨醒來的壓力會讓她陷入恐慌）以及只爲雞尾酒與談話所進行的輕率的約會。無聊。

's low-drama.

4.她不充滿戲劇性

You would think all of those emotions would lead to a number of erratic eruptions but to the contrary, there's a wisdom and maturity found in these women that allows them to quickly identify what's important and meaningful and what's surface white noise.

你會想所有這些情緒會導致許多火山爆發式的事件，但正相反，這些女人擁有的智慧和成熟將讓她們能迅速分辨出什麼是重要和有意義的事，什麼和表面的白噪音一樣不重要。

's not stupid.

3.她不笨

Curiosity may have killed the cat, but it has made the emotionally complex woman captivating. As motivations and feelings interest her, she's the kind of woman who will do a google search on Grecian dresses and find herself reading about Atlantis two hours later. She loves history: Yours, Rome's, the bodega owner's upbringing, etc. This has resulted in a plethora of fun facts and inquisitiveness that sets her apart from those who want to spend their happy hours talking about housewives.

好奇害死貓，但好奇心讓情感豐富的女人更迷人。當動力和感情讓她產生興趣後，她是那種會去谷歌一下希臘服裝又在兩小時後發現自己在閱讀亞特蘭蒂斯相關信息的女性。她熱愛歷史：你的、羅馬的、酒窖主人的，等等等等。結果是這讓她知曉了大量有趣的事實以及擁有求知慾，將她與那些只在快樂時光裏談論家庭主婦的人區別開來。

's looking for something bigger.

2.她不追求什麼大潮流

Whether talking about life, love, friendships or career, she wants something meaningful. This means she's not going to follow trends, the crowd or anything else other than her own heart, gut and intuition.

不管是生活、愛、友誼還是事業，她都想要一些有意義的事。這意味着她不會緊跟潮流，人云亦云，而只是跟從自己的心聲。

maintains a certain mystery

1.她有種神祕感

Just when you think you've pegged her bold, she goes bashful. Or you suddenly see your girl boss, boardroom-running executive greet you in an apron with dinner in the oven. This woman abhors being pigeonholed and labeled because deep down, she knows she's a multifaceted female with many sides and if you're lucky, you'll get to see them, too.

就在你覺得自己看上了她的無畏時，她又變得害羞了。或者是你突然看見自己的女上司，做着行政會議工作的她穿着圍裙、在烤箱裏做着晚飯向你打招呼。這個女人痛恨被分類和貼標籤，因爲內心深處她明白自己是一個多面的女性，而如果你幸運的話，她其他的多面你也能見到。

翻譯：bansu 來源：前十網