告別心酸單戀：5個方法快速讓ta愛上你
A SCIENTIST has unveiled the five best ways to make someone fall in love with you and they’re all really quick and simple to carry out.
有一個科學家找到了5個讓別人愛上你的最佳方法，而且實行起來十分簡單便捷。
1. Keep eye contact
1. 保持眼神交流
According to American social psychologist, lawyer, and author Zick Rubin’s study people who are in love maintain eye contact 75 per cent of the time.
美國社會心理學家、律師和作家齊克·魯賓的研究發現，戀愛中的人75%的時間都保持着眼神交流。
And it’s scientifically proven that intimacy increases between people who don’t look away as much and constantly keep eye contact.
科學證據也顯示，眼神移開得少、一直保持眼神接觸的兩人親密度也會上升。
2. Be a good listener
2. 用心傾聽
Studies by the University of Nevada and the University of Washington state listening as an important part of falling in love.
內華達大學和華盛頓大學的研究發現，要讓對方愛上你，傾聽是很重要的。
We appreciate feeling as though someone is interested in us, who we are, and our experiences, so avoid digressing and turning the conversation back onto you.
當有人對我們感興趣、想要了解我們的經歷時，我們會感到很高興。所以不要岔開人家的話題，不要把話題引回自己身上。
Wanting to be heard is apparently a primal need, so engage in conversation with people and then try to ask follow up questions.
被聆聽是人的根本需要，所以說要參與到別人的談話中，順着話題提問題。
3. Validation
3. 認可
The same study also cites validation as a key part to falling in love. Making your partner feel supported directly leads to love.
這個研究也把“認可”列爲讓對方愛上你的關鍵因素。讓對方感受到你的支持，這會直接讓你們墮入愛河。
A person is more likely to love you if they feel as though they’re getting it right.
如果你讓對方覺得ta是對的，ta就更有可能會愛上你。
And 48 per cent of failed couples said their relationship broke down because of a lack of appreciation.
48%分手的情侶說他們分手的原因是對方不欣賞自己。
4. Smiling
4. 微笑
This tip is fairly basic but according to a study by Drake University, smiling makes you more attractive and engaging, which is appealing to others.
雖然微笑十分平常，但德雷克大學的研究顯示，微笑會讓你更有魅力。
It also makes you look more like a winner to other people, which is why it’s an important aspect to falling in love.
微笑還會讓你看起來比其他人更成功，所以微笑是讓對方愛上你的重要元素。
5. Touching
5. 身體觸碰
And finally, touching, according to a study by Harvard University, touching leads to overall satisfaction in relationships.
最後是身體觸碰。哈佛大學的研究顯示，身體觸碰會讓雙方在整體上對感情感到滿意。
Being tactile with someone increases comfort and intimacy, which helps make bonds between people stronger.
身體觸碰也會讓雙方感到更放鬆，拉近雙方距離，使雙方的聯繫更加緊密。
