媒體調查顯示 多數孩子不願被迫表演大綱

Most children feel reluctant to show their talents or skills in front of others although their parents and grandparents keep prodding them to do so, according to a survey by Tianfu Morning News.
根據《天府早報》進行的一項調查顯示，儘管家長和祖父母輩一直慫恿孩子在別人面前展示自己的天賦或才能，但大部分孩子不願意這麼做。

Many parents urge their children to give a public performance by singing a song, reciting a poem or dancing during family gatherings or at important festivals.
很多家長會在家庭聚會或重要節日期間鼓勵孩子進行唱歌、背詩或跳舞等表演。

Among 20 students randomly selected near an elementary school in Chengdu's Mengzhuiwan area, 16 said they were unwilling to cooperate when encouraged to perform for family relatives or friends of parents.
在成都猛追灣區域某小學被隨機選中的20名學生中，16名學生表示，當被鼓勵在家長的親戚朋友面前表演節目時，他們不願配合。

Three said it's OK to show off what they are good at. Only one student was glad to stage a show.
3名學生稱可以表演擅長的節目；僅1名學生樂意表演節目。

Lin Da, who offers psychological counseling services in Chengdu, said some children can become more extroverted thanks to the support of parents, but there are also parents who actually try to earn admiration for themselves by forcing their children to perform publicly.
在成都提供心理諮詢服務的林達稱，一些孩子在家長的支持下會變得更外向，但有的家長其實是通過強迫孩子當衆表演試圖使自己收穫讚揚。

She urges parents to respect the choice of children and appreciate diversity.
她呼籲家長應尊重孩子的選擇，欣賞個體差異。

Parents need to be careful in using words like "worthless", or "coward" to describe their children, Lin said.
林達表示，家長應慎用“沒用”或“膽小”等詞彙形容孩子。